Perihal Hak Asuh Anak
Tulisan ini terinspirasi salah satu komentar di postingan saya yang agak kontroversial berjudul “Surat Terbuka Untuk Istri Mantan Suamiku” yang tayang lebih dari setahun lalu. Perihal Hak Asuh Anak Pertanyaan …
An Open Letter to My Ex Husband’s Wife
Dear my ex-husband’s wife, First off, I apologize for the hate messages I sent to you on Facebook nearly 6 years ago when I first found out about you. …
Divorce: Helping My Son Understanding Why
Why Did You Get Divorced? “Mommy, why did you get divorced from Daddy?” He asked me quietly as he sat down on his bed. I inhale deeply and remember that …
Being Single Moms in Indonesia – Fighting The Stigma
Last week I had lunch with two wonderful single moms who are also writers. One was involved in writing a book and we had initially met at her book launch. …
Single Moms Indonesia: Menghapus Stigma Negative
“Iih dia kan janda bok!” “Memangnya kenapa kalau janda Mas? Saya calon janda.” Percakapan di atas ini tidak akan pernah saya lupakan karena itulah untuk pertama kalinya saya merasakan bagaimana …
Co-parenting Just Got Real
“Mommy, why can’t you and Daddy live in the same house again?” My boy asked that one afternoon after I picked him up from school, and it threw me …
Explaining Divorce To A 6 Years Old
This post is technically part 2 of what happened on my son’s graduation day. Things were doing well on the graduation ceremony. Until the parents were allowed to come on …
Graduation & Co-Parenting Milestones
Two years ago… He held my hand tightly as we walked into the school. He was very shy. “I don’t want to go in there!” tears formed in his beautiful …
Not Picky, Just Careful
“It’s normal, dude! She’s twenty….(fill in the dots).” And that’s where I wish my face doesn’t turned green like those emoticon face on yahoo messenger. Every time a similar conversation …
Solitude and Sensibility
Life has been great for me. My son just started K2…he’s growing up so fast and still as sweet and as silly as ever. He will start Elementary school next …